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March 21, 2023

Injured Alexos Sava wants nothing more than to get back to his Army helicopter unit in South Korea. At home to convalesce on his family’s ranch in Colorado, his faith has been as battered as his ankle. The last thing he expected during his recovery was to fall head over wounded heels for a lovely redhead.

Kobbe Cooper-Sanchez has vowed to never marry a military man. When her father is seriously injured in a military helicopter accident, she returns home to help her mother. Alexos catches her eye but when she discovers his career, all bets are off.

How can love bridge the obstacles between this stubborn redhead and determined Army helicopter pilot?

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Book cover for Operation: Allegiance. Alexos and Kobbe struggle to see eye to eye in this book where an exceptional marriage is possible.

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November 1, 2022

How can love blossom for two Army officer candidates when dating is forbidden? 

Setting aside broken dreams of love and marriage, Samantha “Brooke” Cooper-Sanchez is determined to complete Officer Candidate School at Fort Benning, Georgia, so she can be a nurse in the Army Medical Corps. She wasn’t looking for love. Then surprise Christmas gifts begin showing up. Who is sending them and how does this person know her so well? 

Bernard Travis has been friends with Brooke since high school. They’d remained in contact over the years, and now for the first time, she is available to pursue, except dating is forbidden in OCS. When she doesn’t realize who her mysterious gift giver is, Bernard begins to doubt he’ll ever win her heart. Will God make his fondest Christmas wish come true? 

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Book Cover of Operation: Camouflage Christmas a sweet military romance. Watch as Bernard and Brooke prove time and distance are no foe to an exceptional relationship.

DeeDee Lake

is The Connection Expert, a professional speaker, author, blogger, columnist, life coach, and storyteller. She writes and speaks using humor, storytelling, and life experiences. She believes relationships are built one conversation at a time.

DeeDee enjoys guiding relationships from ordinary to extraordinary through healthy boundaries, purposeful communication and knowing your identity.  She believes every relationship needs love, laughter and grace!